Michelin Primacy MXV4 vs Harmony

Well it really is time for hte crap_tegrities to go, even tho dealer says they are fine w/ 5mm tread depth. I have narrowed it down to wanting either the Primacy MXV4 or the Harmony (aka Destiny, x-radial). I was wondering in anyone has any thoughts on the pros and cons of these two tires?

Also I am definitely going to upsize, just can't decide if 195 is the sweet spot or if I would gain more benefit by going 205. Also Discount tire shows both 195/60 and 195/65 as potential fitments. How do I know which one is best?

And lastly, is there anyway I can get my car a little higher off the ground with my tire choice? I am SOOO sick of scraping my front bumper over the curb at the grocery store!

thanks
Fernsmom