replacement bumper, replacement rear view mirror, etc. needed

We have a years-old smash in our rear bumper, but today we lost a rear view mirror, because my husband backed into a pole. It crunched something else near the mirror and scratched the door. I haven't seen it yet, but will take pictures so that I can get the necessary parts identified. My thought is that I will order these parts online and that's where you all come in. Does any one have any recommendations? Better yet, any recomendations that are in my area? San Francisco Bay Area